Inside each envelope was a copy of the same letter from my estate attorney. Weeks earlier, after Renata’s wedding, I had revised the trust Walter and I created years ago. My parents and sisters had previously been named as contingent beneficiaries if something happened to Nolan, Iris, and me together. I removed them. Everything that could legally pass through the trust—our house, savings, and investments—would now ultimately benefit Iris, with an independent trustee protecting her interests until adulthood. The changes had already been signed, witnessed, and completed. Thanksgiving was not a negotiation. I was simply informing them.
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